The Freudian Dog Complex

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When you bring up the name Sigmund Freud, the father of psychology, everyone has an opinion. Well today I am going to tell you a story about Freud that may leave you thinking about him in a different way.

One day, Dr. Freud decided to purchase an Alsatian shepherd named Wolf for his daughter Anna. He wanted her to take the dog on her evening walks through Vienna for protection. As it often happens with cute dogs, Freud fell in love with Wolf.

A few years later, he received two red chows. Now in his 70’s Dr. Freud became very close to one of the chows named Jofi. It wasn’t long before Dr. Freud began bringing him to sessions with his patients. Initially, Freud, a shy man brought Jofi to the sessions to keep himself calm. Over time, he noticed that Jofi calmed the patients as well and that they became more open in the sessions when Jofi was present.

Sadly, Jofi died in 1937. By this time the war had started and Freud and his family had to flee Vienna for London to escape the Nazis. After settling in England, Dr. Freud got another chow named Lun and continued to welcome his dog into his personal life and sessions with patients. After years of dealing with patient’s suffering and living through two World Wars, Freud took refuge in the simplicity of being a dog person.

When I heard this story about Sigmund Freud, I wondered if he could ever have imagined what he started by bringing a dog into the therapy sessions. I think he would be happy to see how the work of dogs has evolved and how all animals help to heal, calm and bring joy when doing therapy work. Freud once wrote” It really explains why one can love an animal like Jofi with such extraordinary intensity: affection without ambivalence, the simplicity of life free from the most unbearable conflicts of civilization, the beauty of an existence complete in itself.” Thanks to Dr. Freud and his dogs, there is a Grover and Doc today.

groverpic  “Whoever said you can’t buy happiness forgot little puppies.”

— Gene Hill

Grover’s Mailbox

mailboxMore letters have arrived that need my response. Let’s see what burning questions people have for me this time.

Dear Grover,

Out of the blue, my dog Jett will get up and start chasing his tail round and round until he gets dizzy. What’s up with that?

All the best,

Zach

 

Dear Zach,

Sometimes I chase my tail in the middle of one of Doc’s counseling sessions. It’s fun and it makes the patients laugh. Doc just ignores me. Other dogs see their tail, get excited and try to catch it. Dogs that do that may be reacting out of instinct. They see something moving and go after it. Some dogs chase their tail to distract themselves until they figure out how to deal with a new situation.

Even though it can be funny to watch Jett chase his tail, don’t encourage it. He could become obsessed and then you would have to bring him to see Doc for some doggy counseling.

Best wishes,

Grover

 

Dear Grover,

How do I get my humans to let me up on the furniture and in the bed at night? They look so comfortable and I want to be right next to them.Thanks for any advice you can give me.

Ruby

 

Dear Ruby,

You have come to the right person. For the first year of my life, Doc wouldn’t let me on the furniture or the bed. She said it was because she wanted me to respect her as the pack leader. I finally convinced her that I could respect her while being on the furniture. I started out by sneaking on to the furniture when she wasn’t home, then into the bed when she fell asleep.

Ruby my friend, persistence is the key. Over time, I wore Doc down and she usually has good boundaries. If you follow my methods I predict you will snoozing away on your human’s pillow top mattress in a short few weeks.

Good luck,

Grover

 

 

groverpic” Somedays you’re the dog; some days you’re the hydrant.”

— Unknown

Goosed

canada-geese-urban-23441279473360OMdmIt’s spring and that means it’s time for the Canadian geese to return to their place of birth on the pond behind Doc’s house as they do year after year. Two geese that Doc has named Max and Myrtle scout out a place to make their nest and then they settle in and wait for the happy event to occur. Even though I am part bird dog, I know not to mess with those geese. We live in harmony, or at least we did until the other day.

It was one of those perfect sunny days. Spring flowers were blooming and a slight breeze was blowing through the trees. Max was staying near Myrtle his life long baby mama and I was keeping watch while resting in the sun. Suddenly, I was startled to attention by a loud ” HONK, HONK!” A strange pair of geese had landed by the pond. Before I could even react, it was on! Max came charging toward the pair, flailing his 60 inch wing span and head butting the pair like a scene from the Jerry Springer show. Those interlopers couldn’t fly away fast enough. The funny thing was, that after the geese flew away, Max went right back to Myrtle’s side like nothing had happened.

Doc often tells me that her favorite thing about all the creatures in nature is the way we deal with problems. Unlike humans, we address the problem and  then move on. There are no grudges or long-term drama. Life is just easier that way. In the wild, we have to move on for the sake of survival. I watch you humans worry your lives away. And that my friends is why humans get ulcers and animals don’t.

groverpic” You can usually tell that a man is good if he has a dog who loves him.”

— W. Bruce Cameron

Monsters in the Yard

A_Wild_Rabbit_at_Lossiemouth_-_geograph_org_uk_-_1441920Doc and I are early risers during the work week. She lets me out a 5am and everything usually goes like clockwork, that is, until this morning.

I alerted Doc to the problem with a low growl and that got her attention right away. There was something moving in the grass in the back yard and it wouldn’t leave. I didn’t want to act like I was scared, but I was. Doc turned on the porch light so she could see. She didn’t miss a beat. She charged out the back door in her pajamas, bed head blowing in the wind. As she closed in on the terrible beast, at first it wouldn’t budge, but Doc stomped her feet and waved her hands until the beast hopped away through the wooden slats of the fence. As it turned out, the monster was a baby bunny. Feeling safe, I went on about my morning routine and Doc went back in the house.

The best thing about the whole adventure is that I learned that I can always count on Doc. She never made fun of me for being scared, she just took care of business. Doc thinks it’s no big deal, that everyone is afraid of something. But, it’s just so nice to have someone to scare the monsters away without making you feel bad for being afraid.

groverpic” Nobody can fully understand love unless they are owned by a dog.”

— Gene Hill